Black Book Your Black Book is where you keep track of all the people you want to get to know in that freaky sort of way. As you add members to your Black Book or they add you, you will see them added to the lists below. If you both added each other you have this listed as well. Pinch List In addition, you can let others know your level of interest by �pinching� them. You can �pinch� them if you�re interested in being their friend or date, or whatever. Your Pinch List is a weekly tally of all the people who have pinched you, as well as the total number of pinches you have received. You get to send a limited number of pinches every week so use them wisely.